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*ikayla5170
writes:So this guy has been flirting with me during this period. He would give me obvious signs that he's interested. He would sometimes stop flirting or talking for days or a week, then he simply comes back and flirts/talks to me again as if nothing has happened. Is he playing games? playing hard to get? Or just testing me out to see if i do care enough for him and see my reaction? I really don't want to appear a fool infront of him. I just need to know if he's interested or just a guy who wants a hook up? Is it normal for guys to act this way?
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (19 November 2015):
 I agree with Cindy And Tisha.
He isn't making much of an consistent effort because he isn't "consistently" thinking of you as a option. But he sees no problem in flirting/charming yo when he has nothing "better" to do.
IF he was really interested he would do more than just flirt/talk occasionally. He'd ask you out or be at least consistent.
He IS either a huge flirt or a huge flake. Neither really someone you'd want to be wanting anything serious with.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 November 2015):
 I don't think he is being strategic, it's just that... he is not that into you, I guess. He shows interest.... some times. Then he forgets about you, and then he reappers.
So, he is giving you " mixed signals "- which, in my humble yet firm opinion, equals to : no real signal.
If someone is really interested , for more than a casual hook up, he will be consistent. Not stalkerish , hopefully , but consistent.
Therefore, I'd think he just wants to hook up. And, he does not even want it that badly ! He probably thinks that the occasional flickers of interest he's throwing your way here and there are enough to keep you keen, and that if and when he'll be good and ready, you will be ripe for the picking.
Please prove him wrong :)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (18 November 2015):
 He's keeping you guessing, flirting then ignoring you, flirting again. He's either playing games, or is a huge flake. If a guy wants to make you his girlfriend, he'd let you know. As he hasn't, assume he's not serious about pursuing you.
Don't get too caught up by him; he's not a serious contender for the official position of boyfriend.
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