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Is he interested in me? Or the girl he is sort of in a relationship with?

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Question - (29 August 2018) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2018)
A female Nigeria age 26-29, anonymous writes:

There's this guy I met,he is my teacher at church.The first day he taught me he asked for my number,I gave him and since then he has been organizing to teach me privately. He would ask how my day was,how I was doing and sometimes he would walk me home even though his house is not any close to where I stayed.He told me that I was pretty,and I am dear to him,he also said he liked my outfit. Anytime am not in church he would call to ask me why? but one of these days he told me he has a girl that he is kinda in a relationship with. Pls do you think he is interested in me or he wants to choose between me and the girl he talked about?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2018):

I feel worried for you. This man looks at you, sees your naivety, your innocence and knows that all he has to do is pay you some attention, some compliments and he may be able to get into your pants.

I'm sorry to put it so crudely, but this is plain for all to see except a young woman who suspects nothing about the teacher at her church. He fancies you and hopes that he can bed you whilst still seeing his girlfriend.

You'll learn about men as you get older (hopefully not the hard way), but until then, keep as far away as possible from this man, who should not be trusted with this position in his society.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (30 August 2018):

Honeypie agony auntI think he is being inappropriate with you. He is supposed to be your teacher?

He isn't supposed to HIT on you. He is supposed to TEACH you. That is slimy and creepy.

And he HAS a girl already. The whole "kinda in a relationship" is him hinting that he is interested in you but also that he already is seeing someone so you would be the "thing on the side". He calls it a "kinda" so you won't say no thanks you have a girl already...

Slimy creepy dude and I think you should stay absolutely far away from this man. And... find another teacher if possible. This one is full of DUNG.

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