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female
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41-50,
*rummyscreenname
writes:My boyfriend told me, when he was very drunk (I was drunk too, and pushing) about a female friend of his that he'd like to sleep with. Anyhow, now he's been spending more time/ paying more attention to her. Should I be worried? Is he going to try to cheat with her on me? He has broken up with me before, twice, once he said he'd fallen in love with someone else (that was before he ever said that he loved me, which he now says).
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): He has broken up with you twice before - it doesn't sound a very stable relationship. I really would think about whether you want to be with him at all. You seem to be waiting for the next sign that he's going to breakup with you again. No matter how much you love him, that is no way to live your life. If he is showing signs of being interested in this girl, I would be off. Get in there first and walk away with some dignity. Don't hang around to his agenda.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): While I agree with the above statement, you did say you were pushing. Every man is attracted to other women, it's just the way it is. An attractive women is attractive, she doesn't magically become ugly because you are in a relationship. I had a girlfriend do that to me in the past, push me and push me until I finally told her whether I found one or two girls attractive or not. Then predictably when I gave in and gave my answer she freaked out. To be honest I don't think thats fair. So the question you have to ask yourself is this, dose he just find her attractive or is he the kind of guy to actually cheat on you?
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reader, Abella  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 yes, based on his track record he's rev- ving up, working his 'magic' on this woman with a view to connecting. Why stick with a guy who's managed to cheat, and be forgiven, and cheat again.
Based on what you have revealed about this guy, i think the other woman is welcome to him.
You are listed as being 30-35 so go out and meet and settle down with a genuine gentleman who treats you with the consideration and respect you deserve.
Your current lothario sounds like a potential player. You cannot trust such a man. He will probably still be attempting to play up all the rest of his life.
Find and settle down with a good guy who wants to treat you like a princess
24/7.
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