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Is he getting it somewhere else?

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Question - (30 September 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2009)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Men get off quicker when they havent had it in a while. Thats from my experience.

Is that true or does it depend on the person?

Because my b/f and I havent had sex in 3 1/2 months and then when we did he didnt go quickly. Not that I am complaining but I am worried that since we went that long without sex, If it means he has been somewhere else.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009):

Yes, it usually works that way. However, I find if I go more than a day without ejaculating sometimes it does take longer to orgasm with a really full load.

I agree with the others. A guy in his early twenties doesn't go 3 1/2 months without cumming. He needs to cum every day, sometimes twice a day. He is probably masturbating a lot.

Don't listen to some of the b.s. a few girls write on this website about it being a choice and that guys don't need to masturbate. They don't know what they are talking about because they are women. A 20 year old guy will masturbate every day, even if he is having sex too.

If you think he is cheating, then look for condoms, and smell his skin and clothes for signs of another woman's perfume. If you come up empty then he is just takig care of business himself.

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A female reader, HereAreMyTwoCents United States +, writes (1 October 2009):

HereAreMyTwoCents agony auntMaybe he recently masturbated. Have you considered this possibility?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009):

Well I would say that because you two havnt had sex for 3 1/2 months, he problely has been masturbating (assuming he hasnt cheated)

That solves the release problem guys need... Could be something as simple as that?

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A male reader, Stooch United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2009):

This 'somewhere else' is probably his hand, dear. Don't assume the worst :)

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