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writes:Greetings,I am a 20 year old virgin guy... and I think I am gay. Noone knows I am gay because I don't even know if I am for sure gay or bi. I feel attracted to both sexes but since I am still a virgin I am afraid of going with either for sex because what if I am not aroused?!Anyway, my problem which I want help is that at this time of my life I feel attracted towards a guy from my uni. From the first time I saw him and listen to his voice I got stack. For weeks I tried to struck up a conversation with him and finally I did it. For some reasons we end up going to the gym together with my car and get to know each other better. I could not help it but i fell in love...In between our conversations, mostly funny I told him in a seriously way I am gay, and i really look serious so he would understand I mean it. At first the answer was "Since I tell you lies all the time.. (we had some conversation where he was telling lies to me all the time) ... I am gay like you. But you know i lie."And mostly we had conversations or watch a movie together at my house or his. But i couldn't help it and so i started hugged him, or play with his ear. But he did not resist. And yesterday we were reading horoscopes. When he read his it was saying something like "Someone near you will fall in love with you. You like that someone and it means a lot to you. Look out as it might be your love of your life". After that i asked him what his scorope was telling and he told me "about you... Look at it". And I read it. And then he laughed and we both laughed. Now I am tottaly confused. I dont know if he is in to me or not and I am realy realy afraid to ask in case I lose him :(And last, to be gay around here is like a crime. you dont get in jail or so but everyone looks to you differently and does not speak to you. Moreover your parents look sooooo dissapointed in you , just like if you killed a person! Its horrible.Sorry for writing so many things but I dont have anyone to talk to... :/I would like your oppinions :| and if some way to know if he is gay... Please... :(Thanks...
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 Hmmmm....he's probably weighing his options.If he was 100% straight he wouldn't be so close to you,would he?
Chances are he likes you. But he's scared as well.
I suggest you guys become friends first,so you can ask him later on if he liked girls and then move on and ask whether he likes guys or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): From what i have read and from my GAY experinces I would say that he is gay but he is trying to make it some sort of mystery so you can work it out for yourself but for me I's say he's definetley gay because you cant lie about your sexuality, so go for it. RENEMBER if it's bad to be gay at where you live maybe thats why he's not telling you in the right way that he likes you too. If i was I'd go for it he sound like he's into you and if he's straight he would'nt cuddle. Good Luck x
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