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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:This man and I have known one another since he early 90's. We have history.We got back in touch in 2009 and saw one another. When we saw one another, he laid things out on the line. I am attracted to you... I am a very busy person but I make time for the important people in my life, you are important. I will always make time for you. As time has gone on, things seem to have gotten more serious. I asked him one day about something emotional. He touched his heart with his hand and said, "I dont talk about what is in my heart, I will tell you sometime." He only speaks a few words about feelings now. Its like when we were just friends he could speak of them, but since things are more serious he cant. He is in the Army and deployed not very long ago. What he does say is very meaningful. We do love one another, but kind of on hold bc of the military. I just wonder, is he afraid of getting really close afraid to be hurt? Is it just the Army thing? I guess he could be backing up bc he will be gone for e yr. Just trying to get some insight.
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (23 March 2011):
 It sound like that is exactly what is going on. He cares for you, but for right now his duty comes first and he doesn't want you to get hurt. Or himself.
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