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writes:Iv been dating a guy for about three months now, everything is going on well but the problem is he does things with me secretly, it baffles but iv notice he does things with other girls publicly. Is he ashamed to be seen with or he doesn't love me? I dont want to compain about it to him to seem that im a nagging gf. I need help please Reply to this Question
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reader, Ayan Ganguly  +, writes (13 June 2012):
 You should better talk straight to him..don't worry if it makes you a nagging gfriend..it's better to confront him and and ask him why needs to do things with other girls when he is in a relationship with you...you would end up in a sorry state if you give your partner a loose-hand..all the best
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (13 June 2012):
 You said:" iv notice he does things with other girls publicly"
What did you mean? Before you two saw each other or while you two are seeing each other? And exactly WHAT things is he doing to other girls?
If he can't take you out or be seen with you, I think you got a problem. I don't think that he needs to PDA with you in front of friends or scream your name from the roof tops, but I think it's quite normal to want to go hang out at a pub/coffee shop/the movies/walk in the park, you name it, with someone you are in a relationship with.
As far as your question if he is ashamed or not in love. I can't say. It's only been 3 months so "love" may not quite be on the table yet.
Why not ask HIM out to a movie? or something like that?
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