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Is going to a dinner at a date's house early on in the relationship too intimate?

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Question - (25 August 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2015)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I recently met someone who I've become really interested in and would like to possibly start dating to the point of already thinking of what to say/suggest if and when I ask. Although we only met recently, I discovered that she works in a bar I visit and I was served by her, and remember us both being a bit flirty.

I'd really like to suggest cooking dinner for her, but this would have to be at her place as I live with my housebound mother. I'd also be the one paying for the food, but I'm not sure if that might be doing things a bit too quickly?

I know that men who cook are considered attractive, but is going to a date's house so soon a bit overly intimate or is it a better idea than going to a restaurant?

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A female reader, RubyBirtle United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2015):

I agree with Honeypie in that it's too soon for a date at home and that you should stick to neutral places.

If you want to wow her with your culinary skills you could always prepare a posh picnic instead and go and eat it elsewhere. You'll just have to pray for good weather over Bank Holiday weekend!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (25 August 2015):

Honeypie agony auntI'd say it's fine for the 5th+ date, not before.

I would stick to neutral places for now. There is less pressure on either of you that way.

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