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writes: I posted a question earlier on this site, but i didn;'t make it clear, so here goes again:There is this girl who is my friend and i really love her. We are both girls. Earlier this year a m8 sent around a rumour that h.j was a lesbian. I thought she was and got my hopes up, although i acted like i hated her, always saying she liked another of my friends. The rumour was a lie. She confronted me recently about me saying she liked my other friends and stuff. I went round her house for a sleepover about a week ago and she started making jokes, saying i was a lesbian. I'm not sure but i think she was making hints at me. Some of the things she said was 'If anybody asks how far we are in a relationship, i would say we have done it all' and she was making jokes about phoning my mum and saying 'hi is my girlfriend there'. I am not sure if these are hints. I always sit as near to her as i can. I really like her, i nearly always stare at her, think about her, dream about her, fantasize about her. Sometimes when i talk to her, i unconsciously look her up and down, she doesn't mention her not liking it or liking it. I love her but i don't want to tell her because i don't want to ruin our friendly relationship. We have recently gotten extremely close. PLEASE GOD HELP ME
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reader, Terrapin +, writes (10 June 2006):
 you both sound a little confused. personally i'd either do one of two things. option A, go for it, express how you feel and hope that roumours dont get around about you if it all goes wrong. Option B you could sit back and wait for her to (unlikely) make the first move, while trying to ignore your own feelings until you are a bit more mature and able to cope with 'love'. Personally I think I'd go for option B, but im a scaredy cat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2006): Hey, listen, she screwed up, she;s literally making fun of you and it's not going to happen. If she knows how you feel than she can tell you, wait for her to make the first move.
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reader, camille  +, writes (2 June 2006):
 I'm sure I replied to you last time but all I will add is.... Are YOU a lesbian? (last time I thought you said no?) . It sounds like she's noticed how you feel. It doesn't sound to me as if she's a lesbian. It doesn't sound like she's being a particularly good friend either. She's having fun at your expense and it's not on. Try to spend time away from her. You may be straight and going through a normal phase and have a crush on this girl, you may be bi-sexual or you may be a lesbian, but if she's saying she's not a lesbian, you have to accept that, forget about her and move on.
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