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Is distance going to be an issue? Is she even interested?

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Question - (30 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2011)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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I'm 17 and this weekend it was my little sisters christening so we had a lot of family and friends over. So I get talking to one of my mums old friends and she introduced me to to family but what really caught my eye was her step-daughter. We met once when I was 13 and I didn't really like her too much as she was annoying and not to sound shallow but really wasn't attractive at all looks and personality. But anyway she looked stunning and at the party we had a nice little moment together talking. Anyway she is really mature now and a great person as well as being stunning. So I found out a lot about her chatting and I really like her. We didn't kiss or anything but she did draw a beautiful picture on my arm with eyeliner (she's an artist so was showing me her skills). Anyway cut to the chase although I really like her and would like to get to know her better but she lives about 170 miles away and our families don't meet up that often. Although she acts really mature and looks older she is 15 and I don't know if that might get in the way.Im wondering whether to give her a shot or not as I don't want to start anything with her that may be ruined because of distance.

I want to know if she is interested in me. We got chatting on our own and she was really smiley and wanted to know a lot about me. Although she was really smiley she seemed nervous and fidgety (playing with her hair and clothes, licking lips a lot etc).She's an artist so when I asked about her skills she drew a beautiful picture on my arm. I really wanted to kiss her but wasn't sure if she felt the sane way or if I would end up with a slap.Im a pretty shy guy and I often get rejected but this time I want to be she is at least slightly interested in me before I make a move.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (4 May 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntthe fidgeting means she likes you... it's called PREENING...

the sad thing is 170 miles apart is hard.

and she's young

and you're young (sorry to tell you this)

and LDRS suck

and new relationships when you are teens SUCK

make it an LDR and it sucks worse.

can you bear to be just friends with her?

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