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*hellygurl69
writes:im in love with 2 men first man have been with 4 17 years and i was a bored housewife second guy i met off the internet and we are both the same in everything that we do i have been with him now 20 months and he is all that i think about i dont eat or sleep and did try living with him but he hads so much bagges he got kids and a ex and now he met a younger women but he in love with both of us and i have gone back 2 my ex as i have everything the love the house our son and he wants 2 give me everything but the silly thing is i want the bad boy that doesnt have everything and cannot give me everything is this a bad thing ...lolthe new women is up near where he live and is rich and he said that she can help him out ...and as 4 me i cannot help him out as i live 6 hours away from him... plus i dont work and he cannot subpport me even thou i have evrything all i would have 2 do is get a job and get a house 4 both of us and live up near him which would leave me not seeing my son that much ....we try 2 see eacher every month and when we do the love is there i would marrie the guy but guess what he is married..loli do feel so sori 4 my man of 17 years he would give me the world if he could there been alot of hurt on both sides and i feel so sad hurt in many way .........being in love with 2 men is not a great thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): I think u shouldn't go back to the guy who you had been with for 17 yrs , once you alreday left him for the new guy .You say you feel sorry for your man of 17 yrs , but if you really cared you wouldn't dump him like this . Dont you agree?
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reader, shellygurl69 +, writes (24 July 2010):
shellygurl69 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks so much 4 answering my question hads made me think alot and i will take it on board......thanks again....:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): some people are ok with polyamory, but i do not believe that it works. if you just want two sexual partners, that is fine, but if you are having serious relationships with two men at the same time, you are not giving either one of them your all.
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reader, freckletonmonami  +, writes (23 July 2010):
Nope, being in love with 2 men isn't a good thing :D
Maybe you're not in love with the both of them though? I mean, it happens a lot, a woman is always attracted to "the bad boy", the one who cannot provide her with everything but is a bit of fun, right?
I think it's completely a case of following your heart. Which ever man you would feel most comfortable with.. which ever man you actually are in love with! To me, the man you've been with for 17 years sounds like the good option if I'm honest. You clearly get on and love each other, but it's up to you!
Good luck! xx
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