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Is being a virgin at 15 normal?

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Question - (24 July 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2008)
A male United States age 13-15, Xeanoz writes:

This is my first question on this website, I just joined today, and I'm really scared people will laugh or make fun of me.. but.. I'm 15 and is it normal to be a virgin at that age? My penis is six inches erect.. and I'm scared girls will think it's too small to do anything with. Please help.

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A female reader, deejuliet United States + , writes (24 July 2008):

deejuliet agony auntYes it is not only normal but expected to be a virgin at 15! And six inches is at worst normal and maybe a bit more than normal. Relax! Dont worry about having sex for SEVERAL more years and wait for someone really special to have it with. You get to lose your virginity only once. Make it count.

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A male reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2008):

Phsyciatrist-to-be agony auntYou're 15, and you're worrying about THAT? Of course it's normal! Anyone who tells you otherwise is an idiot: as people have said, you have to be 16 to have sex anyway! People that brag about having sex at 15 are either lying, or even more stupid than those above, there are loads of risks involved: the girl could end up pregnant, someone or both of you could end up with an STI...

If people tease you about it, just stay cool and reply with a grin and something like "I'm saving myself for someone special."

PS, at 15, your penis length is not important. Sounds about average to me, possibly bigger, and you still got a few more years of development yet mate.

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A female reader, the ex wife United States +, writes (24 July 2008):

the ex wife agony auntTrust me, 6in is fine. Besides, it's more then just the sex. The ladies also go by touches and embraces. It's not embarrassing at all to be a Virgin at 15. Good Golly! I was 18 when I gave it up. The guy I gave it to was HOT, 18 and I was his second. Be Proud! Guess what else, the ladies think that's hot to be a virgin. Then you will have the ladies fighting over who will be the first to "take it". Don't worry. You're fine!

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A female reader, the ex wife United States +, writes (24 July 2008):

the ex wife agony auntTrust me, 6in is fine. Besides, it's more then just the sex. The ladies also go by touches and embraces. It's not embarrassing at all to be a Virgin at 15. Good Golly! I was 18 when I gave it up. The guy I gave it to was HOT, 18 and I was his second. Be Proud! Guess what else, the ladies think that's hot to be a virgin. Then you will have the ladies fighting over who will be the first to "take it". Don't worry. You're fine!

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A female reader, Kinky Boots United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2008):

Kinky Boots agony auntThat is very acceptable size for someone only 15, so stop worrying. And at the age of 15, what is your hurry? have your mates SAID they have done it, well i bet most of them havent, just talk. Relax, dont wear it out, you have the rest of your life, enjoy your youth.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008):

1. 6 inches isnt small.

2. im almost 17 and still a virgin.

3. a lot of girls dont want a guy whos "been around" only the shallow idiots like that. its dirty and gross. save it for someone youre in love with. its just a bonus if theyre a virgin too.

keep your v-card boiii!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008):

Be confidant, 6 inch is average according to most studies and I think you should focus more on understanding female anatomy, what size is better depends on the female counterpart in question.

Im a virigin though not clueless and im 25, thats the age where its already a bad thing, at 15 its common, but if you really feel uncomfterable with admitting to being one you can always lie about it like most people tend to do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008):

Six inches is not a small size. What matters most is width. Also, it's fine to be a virgin at your age.

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A male reader, saltwater United Kingdom + , writes (24 July 2008):

saltwater agony auntOf course being a virgin at 15 is normal...the fact you think you will be made fun of is slightly worrying.

And 6 inches ain't exactly small son.

Though don't worry, when you do have sex (which should only be when you're ready) the size of people's genitals ain't an issue...both of you will be too excited to care.

Only shallow people will make it an issue.

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A male reader, coolicoolicool Canada +, writes (24 July 2008):

coolicoolicool agony auntyes its very normal as the legal age is 16, all ya gotta do is wait 1 more year dude

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