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Is a thankyou card to my doctor appropriate?

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Question - (8 July 2016) 8 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2016)
A female United States age 41-50, *ishi 1 writes:

Hi ,

Thanks for being helpful .

I need a advice. I am going to doc for treatment. His treatment helping me a lot.

I want to send him a card.

I bought a thank you card.now I am confuse about sentance in the card. Its written thanks for making my little corner of the world a happier place to be.

I am not English native speaker. Can I send him card with that kind of words?

He is my doc helping my treatment.

I searched a lot but was not able to understand.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2016):

If it's your psychiatrist, you see each other face to face all the time. So you can best express your gratitude in words.

Don't get emotionally attached, and be sure you always remember the relationship is strictly professional.

Doctor to patient.

Cards are nice, but the message should be respectful and make no emotional references. Strictly an expression of thanks.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (8 July 2016):

Honeypie agony auntI agree with WiseOwlE

ADDRESS it to the doctor AND his whole staff, that way there isn't going to be anyone misunderstanding what you mean.

The OB/GYN who delivered my #2 and #3 child had a WALL full of cards and pictures of kids she helped deliver. Now she wasn't in the room when I gave birth to #2 (I had a midwife there instead) but if it wasn't for my OB'GYN (and her staff) I would possible not have carried #2 to full term if at all. So yes, she got a card (to thank her and her whole staff).

I think it's a nice thought to send a card.

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A female reader, mishi 1 United States +, writes (8 July 2016):

mishi 1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

mishi 1 agony auntThanks for all replies.

He is physicatrist. He helping me with my depression that I had for 17 years. I am still under his treatment . I felt Money is not important to him than his patients treatment.Thanks again. God bless

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (8 July 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntThe words in the card are okay, so yes send it, am sure doctors like to hear positive feed back as well. Hope you are on the mend. Take Care.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2016):

Yes, I think that would be a nice thing to do.

Yes it is his job and he is expected to do everything for you regardless.

But Doctors work long hours, and have many demands on them. So a little bit of gratitude from a patient may make his day.

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A female reader, miss frank United Kingdom +, writes (8 July 2016):

Hi. I think its fine to send- people send cards to their Drs and nurses all the time. As long as there isn't anything beyond what you have said in your post, its fine. But really, it isn't expected so if it is causing you anxiety just tell him in words that its meant a lot and thank you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2016):

I think you should simply express your gratitude in words.

He is a healthcare provider. He took an oath to preserve and save lives. He isn't just being kind, he is doing a service and what his profession requires. In the event that he is a married man; if you do offer a card, address it to him and all his staff. If you were seriously ill, the doctor isn't the only one who contributed to helping you feel better.

There are nurses, office staff, and technicians all working together to help you get well.

I'm happy to know your health is improving. That's absolutely wonderful. I'll say a little prayer of thanks for that too!

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (8 July 2016):

chigirl agony auntI think it is fine. It means he made your life a little easier. You can send it to him.

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