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reader, Odds +, writes (5 July 2010):
 The answer is different, depending on whether or not you've already had sex.
If so, cutting him off from sex will make him think *you* have lost interest. Even if he is interested, this will be a strong incentive for him to leave you. Your best option in this case is to try to do more "couple" things to reinforce the pair-bond. Go on a road trip, meet each others' parents. Also, go out with his friends, and have him come out with yours, then go home without sex (show up seperately so you have a reason).
If you have not yet slept with him, hold out a while longer. Get to know him, and see if he is willing to wait.
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reader, Sandman +, writes (5 July 2010):
 By not giving him sex and seeing if he remains interested.
Set rules. If you're looking for a long term relationship and not just another romp in the sack, let the guy know up front. Most people who are looking for casual hook-ups will flee when they're told they're not getting any. Let him know you have no plans on having sex until you are SURE about him - not matter how long that takes. See if he sticks around. If he does, he's in for the long haul and is interested in more than what's between your thighs. If he doesn't stick around, then you've saved yourself from becoming just another romp in the sack.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): Well if you let some time past without sex and he still stays by your side and care for you then you'll see :)
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