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Insecure about my small breats. I'd love to hear other views on this!

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Question - (11 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, *ayniemoo writes:

I have really small boobs. I don't even think I'm an a. Is an smaller than an AA or the other way around? My boyfriend says he doesn't care about my boob size. But one night I found him looking at a sexy lady in a bikini on the net and it really upset me because I'm chubby with small boobs. One time I got with this guy who could not stop telling me how small my boobs were and that they were the smallest he'd ever seen. I'd love to hear other peoples views

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A male reader, whatamessinwinter United Kingdom +, writes (13 October 2008):

Basically breasts are very nice, and there is definitely a feeling of being into some breasts and not others.

My last partner was large-breasted since very young, and has always disliked it - uncomfortable during exercise, bras not fitting well etc.If it was easy,cheap and safe, I'm sure she would want to have her breasts reduced. The partner I had before her was flat-chested and didn't need a bra at all. It was obviously something that caused a complex in her, and she was often irritable about men's fascination with breasts - she thought it juvenile.

For me, neither partner's breasts were a turn-on. I was attracted to other things about them. I knew that there would be things about me that they didn't like, so it goes both ways.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008):

Look... men like looking at women. Married or not we are gonna notice a woman in a bikini, especially if her body is toned.

It doesn't mean we are tempted to shag the woman on the spot with little regard for the partner sitting next to us.

Women always, always, fail to understand that for men... looking at a naked or scantily clad woman is not an emotional connection. It is a pure admiration of a female body.

And at the end of the day, he isn't going out with because he thinks you're ugly. He's with you because he chooses to be. He can walk away any time he wants.

He hasn't. He has told you upfront that he thinks you are good as you are. What more can he be expected to say? Would you have him poke out his eyes every time a woman wereing a thong goes past or a sex scene in a film comes on?

It's time you look to yourself for you self-esteem issues and stopped putting the blame on a mane who doesn't deserve it.

Flynn 24

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A male reader, Passthrough United States +, writes (12 October 2008):

Passthrough agony auntI agree, they are only good for looking at.

Personally, I prefer small ones in the bedroom, if you know what I mean.

Think in the longrun, you'll never sag :D

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