A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi everyone. i'm 17 and i've been having a relationship with this girl, A for almost 3 years. she confessed to me 3 years ago and i accepted. starting, we were really very happy together. i can feel the love she had for me. after that we decided to go the same class. we did and our relationship started getting worse. there were more downs than ups. we've been arguing a lot disregard tiny or big matters. every time i'm the one who decided to tolerate the whole thing and make her happy back. even some times, when i done nothing wrong and she's mad at me for no reason. if i didnt make the first move on tolerating, our fight would last very long. so to prevent that, i make the first move every time. it was okay by me, as long as she doesnt go beyond the limit. and i love her too much to get mad at her for so long. i tried so hard to prevent the quarrels that we were about to broke and matters that made us breakup. i tried so hard to keep us together but just last month, she told me she wanna breakup with me. reason is because she dont want to let her family down and wanted to be into normal relationships. im devastated and getting really depressed every day. i love her so much from the bottom of my heart now i dont know how to get used to her absence or continue the days without her. my heart still breaking. i miss her so much. been trying to get her back a few times, she insisted on breaking up. honestly, i couldnt accept the fact. how can she suddenly, breakup with me for a normal life? i really love her, i need her in my life. anyone here, that understands my feelings? someone here, please, help me go through this? thanks in advance.. ive no one i could actually talk this to.. please help. im hardly ever happy ever since shes gone.. sigh
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): hey, thanks for your reply.
losing her is really too much for me to take. i've been trying hard not to talk to her see her contact her anymore. but i dont know how long i can stand. i miss her a lot.
yes i did do stuff i love to do, hanging out with friends but still i'm like missing something in my life. usually she will do stuff i love to do with me, hanging out with me. now she's gone, i can picture her everywhere in my room in my car or even at the mall. me and her spent a lot of time doing things together last time. so it seems everywhere i go i can see her there and reminds me of her.
i did talked to my best friend. she did console me and support me. but i need some other people's advice. because even my best friend sometimes couldnt understand why its so hard for me to let her go. i'm too deep love with her.
yes.. and i'm a crap already. crying over her for weeks already. you are right. i should move on. i will try my best to move on and forget about her. god bless me, i dont failed again.
once again, thanks for your reply. appreciate it much.
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