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writes: just wondering i have had the same girl for 1yr 6mons we recently broke up. but in this time we would get in and argument and fight and she would move out and live with her dad and step mom. a few days later she would come back.i supported her for most of our relationship.she started working the last 5 mons we were together. i was gonna marry her. but we did get into fights at times bad ones. i would want to leave to cool off and she wouldnt let me go she would push hold me follow me out to the car wouldnt let me on to go then i started to push back but not hard just enough to get her off me. i did slap her twice not hard either but i still slapped her but only after she bit me hard pulled on my johnson. hit scratched my face. if i didnt want to fight with her it seemed to make her more mad. i love her so but jeez. sometimes she would stay at me till i got so mad i would break things i have never been like this with anyone before.well i bought her a suv well she left and stuck me with the payment which i guess is okay. heck it drives pretty good haha. but i tried to call her cause i wanted her name off the title and needed her to sign some papers. well when i called she didnt answer then 10 mins later her mom calls and says dont call her anymoreshe says you abused her and she has had enough .well i no slapping is wrong very wrong. but i ended up calling her mom back and goin off on her and telling just what i thought. see her mom would go for months without talking to her because her mom didnt get her way with somthing . like the holidays or something. i guess my q's is we have alot of love for another. could this ever work. and was i an abuser when i was trying to get out of the situation to cool off and let her cool off to. and how can i get her back cuz i kinda fubbed up on the 2 week thang and suggestions is greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): Seems to be that you relationship was very abusive.
You both need anger management help.
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