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I'm worried that my gay friend is coming onto me! How do I stop this?

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Question - (28 January 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am twenty-one and straight female and I think as confusing as it is that my gay male friend likes me more than a friend. We have been friends for 5 yrs and lately he has been kissing me on my cheek and telling me he loves me more and more and talking about sex a lot. Then he kept telling me he has something to tell me and it always start with the fact he is gay but

.. then I hurry and change the subject cause its weird I'm the one that helped him come out and feel accepted. Now he is holding me from behind and grabbing and smacking my boobs and butt. How do I stop this? Is he teasing me? Like a joke cause I've never seen him romantic like cause he is and have always been gay to me.

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A female reader, babalou United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2013):

babalou agony auntI've been kissed on the lips by one of my gay friends, but yeah, I don't think that's acceptable, whether he's gay or not. Discuss what you think is appropriate or inappropriate with him, you know, set some boundaries.

In my opinion, it sounds like he may be bisexual though, or lonely. Either way, just make it known that you aren't comfortable with certain things, even if he is gay, or whatever. Don't question his sexuality though because that will probably offend him, haha!

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