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male
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16-17,
anonymous
writes:ok I'm 16 but have only been out with someone once. THe problem is that I am very very very shy to girls that i like well one girl. the problem is i can talk to girls normally if i dont have any feelings towards them like non gf stuff but the second i fancy someone i get all nervous speaking to them and not knowing what to do.does anyone know how i can get over the problem its really starting to bug me as she might end up going for another guy but i really love her and want to spend all my time with her every day.thanks
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reader, Everoth  +, writes (12 December 2008):
 most girls are understanding of shy guys, just get out there and try it my friend, whats the worst that could happen? an awkward conversation and thats pretty much it, but im sure she'll get the message that you're nervous and remember what cherrylovedmuch said, she isn't the only girl out there, plenty of other fish in the sea so don't let this one girl let you get hung up in your dating life
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): be strong!
get someone else to tell her you like her and that your shy and thats why you might not talk much to her?
alot girls love shy guys
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reader, cherrylovedmuch +, writes (12 December 2008):
ok so you are 16 and that is not much younger than me i am a realist and this is one thing that might help you just face the fact that shee may not be the last you love or like but her is the ting try talking to her about anything if she really loves ofr likes you she will understand tell her you are shy shy guys love to think i know they do so when you are thinking a bout her carry a pen and paper and when you think of some thing to ask her or tell her write it down it shows that you are trying dont feel emmbaressed to tell her you right it down because it shows effort and she will like that so just keep in mind if she dose not like you for you she is not worth it dont chance your ways just to make her happy because if the real you comes out and she falls for the fake then it will end only with your pain
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