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writes:I have a problem, i have stretchmarks on the top of my legs. my boyfriend doesnt no about it, but i dont want to have sex with him incase he does see them. i am worried that it is going to wreck the relationship. Does anyone have any advice on what i could do to get rid of them, or anything else?Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, miss know it all +, writes (22 September 2008):
If your boyfriend cant accept you as you are then what kind of relationship are you in? Ask him what his thoughts are on stretch marks before you decide to sleep with him you might find that it will put your mind at ease especially if he loves you. Men also have stretch marks on there bodies so its not just women who suffer from them. Hope this information helps you.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (22 September 2008):
 Any relationship that can be ruined by stretchmarks is not much of a relationship, at least it isn't one worth having. They are caused by your body growing faster than you skin can adjust and are scar tissue. They will fade in time but they never totally disappear. The ones I got from three pregnancies are still with me and my "baby" just turned 27. My husband calls them my battle scars and I wear them with pride.
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reader, Candie  +, writes (22 September 2008):
There really is no way of getting stretch marks completly, the marks will remain. And as for your bf, if he's natured enough he'll knw and understand that most women get them at some point in their lives. If really shouldn't mind that you have them as they have no positive or negative contribution to sex. Just try it once and you'll see that you will both get used to it. They don't hurt now, do they?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 September 2008):
 I think stretchmarks isn't all you got. I'm sure he will look at them, think about them the way the Uncle suggested in a previous question (maybe you posted it?), and focus on the rest of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): I'm pretty sure that once you've got them you're stuck with them, but to prevent any more appearing use Johnson's Baby Oil in liberal quantities and put the stuff in the bath. It worked for my partner anyway!
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