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writes:Hey,everyone I need an advice. I've been messing around with my FWB (friends with benefits) for a couple months with a guy I knew in high school. When we was both in school,I wasn't that interested in him because he was always quiet but I will noticed that he always stares at me and smiles. He's been doing this for my whole Junior and Senior year in H.S. To make the long story go short, when I graduated he told me he liked me and wanted to see if can talk and get to know each other. So I agreed and we both end up having sex, leading to the whole FWB thing. I'm starting to catch feelings for him and I don't wanna mess around with him anymore. What should I do ? He's heading off to college and I'm scared that some random girl is ganna take him away from me. What should I tell him? What should do ?Thanks. :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (15 August 2011):
 I don't think I could be any more clearer when I say be VERY careful when you have friends with benefits. Maybe I should hand out flyers with a picture of a caution sign, and right below it, it would have the letters FWB. :^)
But seriously...Oxytocin is a very powerful hormone in humans which may make you or the person that you're involved with more emotionally attached. If you're both not looking to get into a relationship with each other, then it would be best to draw the line at just friends...and nothing more. And if he does meet some "random girl" at college, then just work on bouncing back from this situation and just move on. If it's meant to be something between you two, it'll happen. If not, then I'm sure you meet another guy that you could grow to like- and potentially have a relationship with.
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