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I’m worried about having sex due to the shape of my penis!

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Question - (20 June 2018) 7 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2018)
A male Kenya age 22-25, *army writes:

Hi. I'm 19 years old. A boy who has never had sex due to the shape of my penis. I have a down curved banana penis. I'm scared to try it out. What should I do?

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A male reader, JohnyBoy Canada +, writes (25 June 2018):

Yes, you have complexes, but do not get upset. After all, the penis is the tool you use, whether good or bad. It all depends on sexual experience. And since you do not have it, I can say one thing ... If it hardens at you, then it will enter the girl. do not worry

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2018):

Look. A guy to guy advice. Try to sleep with a woman. If you have no problem with her,then you are ok and no reason to worry anymore.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2018):

Again, talk to your doctor. You can't recall anything about what you "read somewhere" about Peyronie's Disease is that it is accompanied by pain. If you read it fully, you would have also determined the fact that pain is not always associated with curvature. Some men have extremely crooked penises and they are the ones requiring treatment; because sex might be difficult for them. Not what you have described.

If you feel no pain, good for you! Talk to your doctor and get an expert opinion; and you can educate yourself while alleviating unnecessary concerns about your future sex-life. You'll be just fine!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2018):

My boyfriend has a curve in his penis, personally i never noticed, he drew my attention to it and yes it is curved, but not abnormally so and we have no problems with our sex life. I think you are over worrying about it, read statistics on having a curved penis and reasons why, if you are worried that much then go to your doctor

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A male reader, Harmy Kenya +, writes (22 June 2018):

Harmy is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I read somewhere that peyronies is accompanied by pain during erections. I don't experience any pain in my case. I'm as normal as any guy but the curved down penis

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A female reader, holeymoley Australia +, writes (22 June 2018):

holeymoley agony auntMy ex had a rather noticeable bend in his, so much so he saw a Dr. to see if he could have it straightened out. Thing is it worked just fine and most certainly did the job.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2018):

Curvature of the penis is called Peyronie's Disease; and whether you have it or not requires a doctor's diagnosis.

There is little difference between a straight penis and a crooked one as far as function. Of course the appearance is different; but some curvatures are actually an advantage in sex; because it is said they may be better at reaching a woman's G-spot (a very sensitive part of the clitoris). The most sensitive area in the vaginal.

Guys your age always come-up with these extraordinary issues they blow completely out of proportion; based on nothing more than folklore, wisecracks from their buddies, and the lack of proper sex-education. They don't usually get as detailed or comprehensive in sex-ed as discussing penis curvature or G-spots. You have to read-up on it.

You have never had sex; so you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. You're worrying yourself over something you need to ask a doctor before drawing your own uninformed conclusions.

Medically,there is something that can be done about Peyronie's disease in extreme cases of curvature. You would have to see a sexologist; and it is not likely your parents will be rushed to get you to one. Talk to your pediatrician or family-doctor during your next physical.

Until you get an expert opinion; don't try to be your own doctor! Banana penises are very common; and your lack of education on the matter is causing you unnecessary concern.

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