A
female
age
13-15,
anonymous
writes:I am really upset. I think I might be bisexual. I really don't know I am so confused. I dont know if i actually am bisexual, because my mum frequently asks me if i'm a lesbian which has got me thinking, first off, it hurts my feelings that 1) she thinks i wouldn't tell her even if i was 2) she says i "dress" like one and act like one. what is that supposed to mean??? Why is my own mum saying this? is my first question.... I have absalutely NOTHING against homosexual relationships, but I never even thought about it. When my mum asks I say "ofcourse not! I am ALWAYS attracted to guys!" but ever since she started asking, Iv'e been thinking and i AM attracted to men no doubt about it at all, but the thought os kissing, or being sexually active with women doesnt sicken me, as it does my friends. Does this mean I might be bisexual. I find women attractive, and I do notice woman, but I notice men ALOT more. Like when my brother says he thinks a female celebrity is hot, I can comfortabley say i agree. could I be bisexual? I really have nobody to talk to about this so It's been building up. But I always used to think that I was so sure about my sexuality that I didnt need to doubt myself when I said a female celebrity hot.
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reader, TasteofIndia  + ♥, writes (18 January 2008):
 Hi sweetness,
Honestly, this should not be overwhelming your thoughts right now. To be honest, it sounds to me like you're pretty straight. "Straight, but not narrow" is what they call it, I believe. I'm like you, I can definitely talk about which female celebs are hot and who aren't. Remember, it's not weird to notice beautiful women, that doesn't make you a lesbian. It means that you have EYES.
If you're curious about kissing a girl, it's okay to experiment. People do that, especially in their teens. You're just figuring yourself out right now, you don't need to make a decision. Maybe you're slightly bisexual, but that won't change who you are. You're still the same person.
Tell your Mom to stop worrying about you. Tell her that you're just who you are and that you love her very much and that she shouldn't be so worried about how you dress. She should be worrying about helping you grow up into a woman and right now her judgments AREN'T HELPING.
Good luck, sweetness,
xx India
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): It is possible to admire the beauty of a lake and trees in a beautiful landscape so it must also be possible to admire beauty in another woman without it being sexual.
If you didn't think you were bisexual before your mum mentioned it, then you probably aren't.
Some girls your age get attracted to another girl/woman but it wears off in time.
Ask your mum what she means by her comments and tell her what you have told us. You DO have someone to talk to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): Look miss you are living in a state where sex activities is at its peak.You should not worry about anything.Tell your mother the importance of her in your life then be calm and tell her that "If you really are my mother than u should believe in me i am your blood so how can i lie with you who have given me birth.Have u remember the old times when nobody supported me you were there for me and now you are saying this.you have forgotten the love of mine for you ".
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