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writes: Ok, I feel like im ready to go on to the next level with my boyfriend (fingering, etc) but I'm really embarrassed about getting "wet" and I'm afraid it might gross him out or something, he thinks I dont get turned-on by him, but thats not the case, i just dont want him knowing that i get turned-on by him. How can I get over my embarrassment, espicially when he is more mature than me. Help! Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): you should tell him that you are turn on because he is going to think that he donsen't n thats bad.. n if he really loves he would be mature enouf about what happens down there (vagina) so u shouldnt be afraid to let him know because if you trust him you wouldnt really care maybe as a joke he will laugh well good luck
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (22 October 2005):
 Men like it when we get wet, it lets them know that they're doing something for us and we're not just faking it! It will not gross him out, if he's willing to go down there, he has to take what comes with it ('comes' -haha!).
If he's older, I'm sure he knows what happens to a girl down there when she gets turned on so don't panic. Just enjoy it, it's paranoid crazes like this that stick with you forever and ruin every sexual relationship you have! Please honey, just forget about it. He'll love it and you will too.
My boyfriend looked up at me from down 'there' the other day and said 'I'll need a snorkel in a minute!' But he had a smile on his face and that's all that matters. We were both enjoying it and that's what sex is all about. Good luck and chill out.
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reader, not again +, writes (21 October 2005):
it kinda sounds like you're playing mind games with him. Why don't you want him to know that he turns you on? What's wrong with that? You can't control what happens to your body, if he touches you and he turns you on then that's great!! And as for wetness, I don't think you'd want to get into fingering without the wetness! That would be real uncomfortable! There's nothing to be embarrassed about, it is completely natural. I may be wrong but it kinda sounds like you're quite young. If you are sure that you're ready then just take things slowly and go with the flow. Turn your mind off and relax. Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2005): I know how you feel, when i was 16 i was soo embarrassed about showing that i was turned on, i was awkward whenever we messed around and i hated the word "wet". i just told my bf how i felt and we actually joked around about it which made it easier. each time you guys mess around, you should feel more confident about it because believe me...you being turned on will NOT gross him out, it will flatter him and turn him on more. next time things get hot and he accuses you of not being turned on, be bold and stick his hands down your pants! that will convince him without yall even talking about it.
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