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writes:dear cupid..i don't understand when me and my husband have sex he takes too long to reach his orgasm he says it's because my vigina is not tight i have so much discharge when having sex that i hardly feel anything because of my problem he doesn't feel like having sex.they is no point he doesn't feel me
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): well for a man to reach orgasm and for you to have better sex i suggest anal sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007): Lay down on your stomach with your legs together. Makes your pussy tighter!
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reader, Tbabygirl101327  +, writes (14 June 2007):
my sugestion to you is try to have sex when he gets the erection to do so and you wont be wet and he can feel u .and there is a remedy that if u soak in a bath w/ warm water and vinger for 15 mins a 2x a week it will make u tight like a virgin again. i have tryed this and it was great.try sex in the warm bath to that also works good to.
good luck..
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (13 June 2007):
 I would suggest to try to alternate your timing of penetration. For example, if you offer him a quickie, you may not be so wet thus he can feel some resistence. Also experiment with the angle of penetration, not the position itself. These things in combination should wake up his sexual desires for you again.
-FBK
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (13 June 2007):
 Why not visit your doctor. I have no medical qualifications to explain why its like that. I'm pregnant at the moment and am going through the complete opposite, I'm too tight and not wet enough and have planned to see my gp.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): Do a search online, there is a product that is specifically made for too much wetness during sex, I bought it once & it works well. It has a talc like consistency but it is all natural & will not irritate you or him. Also, there are kegel exercizes you can do to tigten your vagina. Do them every day. Also there is a sexual position which will make you tighter to him. It is called the praying pear. It is similar to doggy style except you have your legs together, and your knees are pulled more toward your chest. That makes the hole tighter and closer together than if you were doing regular doggy style. These things should help. I just hope you're not too shy to try them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): Pelvic floor muscle exercises may help.
Tighten the muscles you use to control yourself when you need to toilet, go these several times a day, this should tighten those muscles up. Just do them wherever, no one's gonna know except you!
Maybe you could tighten these muscles during sex? I'm sure you'd both like that ;)
I hope I helped a bit. x
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