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writes: Please help me. I think I am driving myself mad with worry. Last year in September I started seeing someone, and later on found out that he snogged a girl who he worked with. He was man enough to tell me and knew he was wrong. Since then, we have been getting on perfectly and he has told me he loves me etc. But I can't get the image out of my head and get worried that he will do it again to me. I do want to trust him, but scared that he will hurt me. I have talked this over with him and he said that I am the only one for him. Then I found a msg from that girl on his phone saying "Hi Mr Flithy, I am sending you my number again on the condition you send me a dirty text once in a while (only playing)". I was shaking in my boots, but didn't confront him about it. I have asked him if he ever texts her and he said that only to find out where work are going when they go out. I do believe him but I just can't get it out of my head. HELP.
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reader, trusty +, writes (3 May 2005):
You're not the only one that's scared of getting hurt. SOME men are known to like the attention from other women and like to lead them on just have fun but never get physicaly invovled. Still, this is no excuse. Talk to him about the message, you need to, if not for your relationship but for yourself !!! good luckxxxxxxx
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