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writes:ok i am 14 in year 10 and stressing about leaving school in 2009.i really dont want to leave school thinking i might not see some of my freinds again really upsets me how can i get over this i shouldnt have to worry about this for like a year yet! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): aww, don't stress about it. schools school. and you will see your friends forever on end. what you don't want to do is stress and not concentrate on your future, your grades and work, and you can use your socail time too spend with friends. just focas on now, and try your best not to worry when it comes along. shouldnt be long now anyway ayh? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): hiya im 13 nearly 14 and coming to the end of year 9 and i realy done want to leave school. i will miss my teachers and some of my freinds. just try and keep focused on the time you have got and make sure you enjoy your time you have got left at school and make the most of it. good luck xx
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reader, gaby +, writes (17 June 2008):
im also 14 and in year 10 and im really stressing too!i dont want to leave my friends or teachers and i find change hard. i keep crying i know its a year away but itll go fast!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): im leaving school in 3 week and im the same, my advice to you is to make the most of the time you have left and worry about it wen the time comes
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Im in year 10 as well, life goes on i guess. one of my mates and her sister left today, was quite a downer.. be glad you've got till' the very end. theres still uni and college and all that yet!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): Hey! - I've had these thoughts too but I've learnt to ignore them and just have fun!! Don't think about them leaving - concentrate on the good times you're having now, otherwise you might ruin them. You can always stay in contact with them - and you can also make new friends too!!
In my opinion it is better to have known someone and had good times with them before you losing touch, than to never have met them at all...
Focus on the present now.
Have a fun year 10!!! x x x
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Wow, i thought you only felt like that after you had left :P i know i did. It happens to EVERYONE, and theres lots of ways around it, yes you wont see your friends as much, maybe only at weekends, but as you get older you lose time for friends as it is even if you could see them everyday. Weather you get a job, go to college, Uni, whatever, youll make new friends, and keep the old. Plus by the time you leave school you and your friends will be old enough to start driving, so you could infact see some of them more than you do now (outside of school anyway.)
Just dont worry about it, youll never lose your friends, no matter how oftern you see them.
(Also as you get older people will have parties and get togethers more oftern :P, so you will get to have good nights with your friends, and they are the best times to be around them)
Another thing to add, is to take pictures, and keep them, i lost all of mine due to my computer dying on me (uploaded them off my camera then deleted off camera) Memories are priceless, and are great to look at if your ever feeling down, make sure you take a camera in on your last day, and get pictures with all your friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): trust me its the best tym of your life in school. i miss those days, enjoy it and take lots of pics!
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (26 November 2007):
 I woulden't worry about leaving school at this point and enjoy the time that you have left there. They say that your school days are the best years of your life, so stop worrying about something thats a year away. It is true that when you leave school a majority of the people you know will go their seperate ways, like some will go to college, some will go to out to work, but this does not mean you can't still stay in touch. Im 30 and i still meet up with friends that i went to school with, and we still laugh about all the stupid things we used to get up to.
All the best x
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reader, doodlebugamy +, writes (26 November 2007):
 I worried about that when I was your age. I'm 20 now and I still see the friends I went to school with. It may not be on a regular basis as they're all at different universities but that makes it even better when we do all get together now and again as we make the most of it and have a massive party or something! You can still keep in touch with them through MSN, Facebook, Bebo or Myspace. I know you won't really want to hear it but when you get out of school you'll make sooooo many other friends in work, college or university who you'll get to see every day.
There will be tears on the last day (there always is) but make sure you have everybody's mobile numbers and email adresses and you can hook up regularly to catch up on each other.
Hope this helps :)
doodlebug
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reader, Megan Deetes +, writes (26 November 2007):
 hey i'm in year 11 and by the time the coursework and mocks start coming in you won't have time to worry about that- trust me x if it makes you feel better start getting msn's myspaces phone numbers from the people you want to stay in touch with and find out who's going to which college or sixth form :D that way your all covered xxxx goog luck xxxx
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