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writes:I would love to know the answer to this question? I was married to a guy that wanted us to be swingers cause of me being 19 when we got married.I didn't have the chance to be a teenager and have fun in any way that i wanted.So I agreed. After a while I got tired of it and I asked him to stop and I thought he did and later on down the line.I found out from a (I thought) Girlfriend and someone I could trust.She told me that they had played behind my back after the fact of her knowing that we were already having problems and I just found out in the last yr that she lied to me about it.I am still madly in love with my ex husband, and thing is I'm married again and I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2007): I have experienced a very very similiar situation. My ex and I have been apart now for 6 plus years. I have been remrried for 2 years now. A day does not go by that I don"t think of him. I love my husnad dearly I am treated so much better he relationship is easy. Our ex- husbands were willing to scarifice us for there pleasure by wanting to have a 3rd party involved.That is certianly not coupleship behavior.I know you miss the chemistry and passion you had with your ex...don't you? ""I sure do"! I just don't think it will ever be what it is like with a first love.Missing in Maryland
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): Just put him in the past. You are married now and you cannot possibly go back to your ex. Put 100% into your marriage and never look back. What you did in the past has long since gone, so just forget it.
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reader, Flowers +, writes (1 March 2007):
 Hi there, u are confused at this stage u did move on but when u saw ex in the past u went back to it Dont look back to ure past Flush it away!Ure happily married would u wanna go back to ure past.No defently not.Go do some wonderfull things with ure husband and forget about ure past and ure ex! xx
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (1 March 2007):
 Put it down to experience and move on. Forget your ex, you're married again!!! Why did you marry when you still have feelings for your ex??? Let him go and try to spice your own marriage up.
Eve
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