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I'm still in love with my ex 3 months on

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Question - (30 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im stil in love with my ex even after 3months of break-up. Iv tried contactin her but she hates me. Iv become this stalkish figure. Im really depressed. What makes matters worse is the fact that we study the same major at university. Shes havin a fling with another guy now even tho when we seperated she said there wasnt anyone else. i dont kno what to do. i miss her company. iv tried to move on ! i dont get any excitement when i speak to other girls. im not interested in anyone else. i try to hav fun with my mates when we go out clubbin or wateva but shes always constantly on my mind. whenever i see her at uni my heart literally jumps,,and when i see her with him especially i jus wana shout. the sad petty thing is that im happy to see shes happy with another guy, even tho im so damn jealous (if that makes any sense)...i wana confront him. 3months on and i still dream about her in my sleep. my exams are comin up and i cant study.

i jus wana shout at her in my lectures. let her kno wat shes doin isnt something i deserve. but i kno il only humiliate myself and be in trouble.

plz what do i do ppl? be brunt and truthful in ur answers. nothing can hurt me anymore.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009):

DC

plz thank all the above ppl for replyin to my message.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009):

"even after three months"

Buddy... try two years and some change. Still, I understand what you are going through at about this point. That initial time of break is always the most painful. Its important that you don't let your life be disrupted by this. Go to class, study, and do your thing.

If you let this derail you from your life, it will only get worse... So STAY ON YOUR GRIND, that is the MOST important thing right now.

And if you are harboring hope of getting her back, this lovey dovey, chase her everywhere, be happy for her having a bf while still feeling conflict in your soul (um yeah), and all this, will only drive her away even more. You must attempt, at least, to project that you simply are OK with everything but you don't think about it too much, and have moved on.

And honestly, harboring hope of getting her back will in all probability fail. The guys that get their exes back let go of them completely first, in heart and mind.

Sounds impossible at this point.. I know. But you will learn one way or the other. Trust in that.

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A male reader, ALONSO80 Venezuela +, writes (30 April 2009):

My girl walked out of our relationship 2 weeks to the day, I joined a gym around the same time, and I feel GREAT, Point is, try to find something to get your mind off her. There's plenty of fish in the sea, who's to say there isn't a better girl for you?. Try to get a rebound girl, It will also help a ton.

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (30 April 2009):

starfairy agony auntThings take time to heal, you need to readjust your life from the comfortable routine you became accustomed to. Fill your days with spending time with friends and family, kep yourself busy. She will resent you if you keep on this "stalker" behaviour.

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (30 April 2009):

niki20 agony aunthun she is over you that is what it is.....Im sorry. You need to get over her. When she said there wasn't anyone else at that point and time there probably was not anyone else. She might have just became intrested in this guy. Just try and block her out i know its hard but its not healthy for you to be like this, even though you said she is always on your mind just try and find some other way to occupy your mind. Good luck!!!

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