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writes:Ive been thinking lately i am bi/gay. Ive been denying these feelings since i was atleast inbetween 15-17 years old now im 29. after having same sex experiences,watching gay porn, i get abit denial at times... i really do want to have a wife and kids and get married and i am attracted to women.... but alot of the time when i do masterbate it is about guys and at times hot chicks... lookng back i did have some boy crush's when i was younger in primary school before i hit my teenage years but ive had heaps of girl crushes... ive picked up heaps of girls in my life but ive had sex with 5 different girls. most relationship with a girl ive had is 6 months... but ive been with about 8 guys in my time safely having once off contact... ive had anal once in that time which was 3 months ago... i occasionally also play with my own anal using a vibrator toothrush using a condom...its sort of in a shape of a penis strangley so yeah.... ive given head and recieved it too... i feel the older ive been gettin the more i think about guys of course girls too but still guys...its been a very long time ive thought about guys now and havnt grown out of it/or snapped out of it... what do u think...do u think my instincts are correct?? that yeap i think i am.... but remember i love women and wanna get married just yeah like the penis so yeah abit difficult to think what's going on.... i often sometimes think about being with guys again especially today which i am entoxicated so not sure if that has something to do with it.. please respond truthfully towards my mini story... i am thinkin wow while ive written all this down cause its different when u right down the pieces when u have it in your head looking back in life..... cheers appreciate ur time to help me out :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your response really appreciate it :)
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (12 November 2011):
 hey there,
I don't think you're gay, like you say, you want to settle down with a woman sometime. But you dabble in both, you're interested in both, I think it's okay to say you're bi. one thing I noticed though is that it's all about the physical with the guys, doesn't seem like you're interested in an emotional relationship to any degree with men (don't know if that's cause you're not interested or because you're trying to suppress that interest), so i think for you you have a high sex drive or sexual attraction to both sexes but are still on the straighter side of bi. all these things are first off, random constructs we've all made to make sense of the world and don't have to be followed as strictly as these three straight/gay/bi divisions we usually categorize them to be, you can think of yourself on a scale. also, nothing wrong with anal play, you can probably get a girlfriend to explore that with you too if she's open to your life which she should be if you tell her much about your past (which you probably should around the second date so it doesn't randomly come up in front of your wife and kids 15 yr down the line awk). hope that helps.
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