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anonymous
writes:The sad part about this is that...i've been trying to get one. I mean it's not that i'm nervous or come on girls perverted or i'm a loser or anything...I really dont know why...every single girl that I start to like ends up not being interested in me. I've had my experience with two girls so far. The first one was a cheerleader and she was too much of a retard to show any interested back and so I start to get the feeling that it's okay...she's just a cheerleader...you dont need her. And so a couple weeks later i met a girl who i thought was the coolest girl ever. We talked and we developed a good friendship. I asked this girl to prom and she said yes. We went as friends and everything, but at the prom...she ended up making out with some other dude and it broke my heart instantly...and so i gave up on finding a girlfriend after that. And so I'm just getting a feeling that maybe i'm just a friend type and i'll never find even a first girlfriend....is this karma? Does God not want me to be happy?
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (11 June 2008):
 I got my first Girlfriend at age 19 (I'm 22).
Did I wanted one earlier? Yeah
Did I try? Yeah
Was it worth the wait though? YEAH!
Turned out that she was even more interesting/beautiful than any other girls I tried to have before.
God as everything set for you, in time you'll have what you want.
Sit back, live your life and let god worry about you relationships. When the time is right, he'll put one in your way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): I am sure if you are giving yourself more time, be friends with the girls, you will meet the "right" one. Don't rush, it might even be somebody you already know. just be patient.Friendships are very valueable in life and I know of many situations where the girls best friend became a boyfriend.Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): Its not karma, just not your time yet.
You can't make someone be interested in you as a boyfriend but girls obvoiusly like you as a friend, which means there isnt anything wrong with you. Friendship is a big part of having a relationship. So eventually you will meet a girl who likes you as a friend and wants to be with you. Just wait and you will meet someone who is right for you.
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