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writes:I'm 20 and I've NEVER given a blow job!I don'tknow how to, I was always scared of doign it wrong. All my life I've been scared of almost EVERYTHING. I was 17 when I had my FIRST boyfriend after bing scared of relationships. And 19 when I FIRST had sex nd that was after I calmed down from the nerves of sex for the first time. But i still think I've forced myself into dong all these things just for the sake of it.Why am I so scared of things like this when other women/ or even girls can't wait to do it. Ther are 16 year olds who know how to give a blow job and I don't. The thing is I'm planning on giving my boyfriend a BJ and I've never done it before, I know I feel ready an being scared is my way of doing things. I'm not forcing myself into this, I just need some advice from you guys. Could you perhaps send me a link to a website on techniques o tell me about your first time?
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reader, heartfullalove  + ♥, writes (3 July 2009):
 Sex shops. Go for the nice, chick-friendly, gorgeously decorated places like Ann Summers, where I'm sure the staff will be happy to help you choose, rather than the seedy ring-doorbell-for-entry dives.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhere do you get those kinda DVD's?
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reader, infiel  +, writes (30 June 2009):
yes, defiantly take things slow don't rush into it and try to get it over with. I myself was 19 going on 20 when I lost my virginity and did my first BJ. First hope and pray his is trimmed. lol Start off by slowly and softly kissing him on the inside of his thighs by his balls. Lick your lips and continue towards his testicles, lick and suck on them not to hard be gentle. On his testicles if you softly lift them with your hand and lick under the testicles it's called Perineum, Google Perineum, and try to find a picture. Lick and suck on that area. Go back to the testicles work your way up on his shaft then to his head lick and suck and slowly stroke with your mouth down and up. Take it easy so you can figure out how fast and how low you can go. Don't worry if you gag it happens. You could try this in different positions. And if you start to gag to much go down to his testicles until you calm down then continue to his head and stroke with your mouth. And don't be shy about telling him you've never done it. He might like the fact that he will be your first. Good Luck
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reader, paul33 +, writes (30 June 2009):
Its not that bad giving a guy a blow job. I have giving a few guys blow jobs and I love it. Just take your time for being your first. Its not that bad. Just be yourself. Paul.
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (30 June 2009):
 If you really want to then plan what you are going to do in your head before you do it.You could focus on the top of his penis first then slowly work your way down or do something completely different.Men will like anything you do down there with your mouth because they have lots of nerve endings which are very sencitive.Just take things slow and do it at your pace :)Good luck Liviaxoxox
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reader, heartfullalove + ♥, writes (30 June 2009):
Kellyxxx is spot on. BUT I'd make sure you take your cue from nice, amateur porn featuring real couples (DVDs like 'Pleasing Your Man', or sites like youporn have some really nice stuff) rather than the sort of sick porn which just shows extremely troubled young women being treated horrifically by sick near-rapists who are probably on steroids. That's no place to learn anything about how to give good oral, or anything at all about real, proper sex.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (30 June 2009):
 Just watch some porn scenes! X
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