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writes:Me and my boyfriend broke up September 17. Its been a while since then. We still talk and hang out at school. I still have feelings for him, and he knows. My feelings for him are slowly going away. See before we were dating we were great friends, now its just not..the same. We're becoming great friends again, and I want to be his friend, yet I still want to be more than that.Last Friday, October 8. He had asked me why I don't have a bf yet and then when I explained why, he told me I should get a bf. I don't understand why he wants me to get a bf. I know he still possibly likes me, sometimes he acts like it and then sometimes he acts like he doesn't even want to see me.Well, that following Sunday, he found out who I liked, besides him, and he acted..oh.. I don't know..pissed or hurt. My friend had told him..and told me what he did, she said he just made a face and walked away. I don't know if he was pissed or just hurt. I'm so confused. I want to be with my ex again, but my feelings for him are going away, yet their still here altogether. I mean I could care less if he got another gf, but then I think about it, and it would probably hurt me in the littlest bit. I'm confused cause I don't know what to do anymore. I'm so stressed. I wan't to be with my ex, and I want to be with the other guy I like. See, I like the other guy more than I like my ex now. But the other guy has a gf, who is really nice and I'm glad he's with her. But it seems so stressful, my ex gives me all these mixed signals and also makes me mad at times. I know we should take some time away from each other..but I can' bring myself to do that. Anywyas, if I do that, he'd think I'm pissed at him or I hate him..I know he would. Please, I need help, I don't know what to do, I know all this seems so confusing. I tried putting it together as best as I could. It's hard for me to explain how I feel. Thank you for your help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): you have to try n mend the fact you want him back or he will run away from your friendship i hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): What should i do?????????
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reader, Ven +, writes (17 October 2010):
And you did a wonderful job of writing that out for us. I hope we can help you.
I want you to read the following sentence that you wrote:
"I wan't to be with my ex, and I want to be with the other guy I like."
My question is, how seriously do you take dating? I'm not trying to swing the adult hammer at you and tell you that you aren't old enough, but that statement really makes it sound like you are not really sure which guy you like. If a boyfriend for you is a status symbol, or a temporary good time, then I can kind of understand what you said. But if you are looking for the love of your life, don't you think it would be obvious which man is YOUR man?
Your ex told you to get a boyfriend, which means he either wants you to move on or is severely confused about how he feels for you. Either way, I don't think your ex should be the reason why you get yourself another guy.
Take just a little time to be single, and enjoy it. Wait until the one man your heart gets hung up on is ready to love you, and then go for it. Whatever you do, don't miss that guy because you ran out and hooked up with a crush.
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