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writes:Right where to start met a minute on the internet 6 months ago haven't met him yet as he live quite far away from me. I must admit I have trust issue because of previous relationship one being my son's dad. Anyway thought this man wanted space so gave him that, listened to caring guys advice and text him and he text back thought things were ok so I thought have a look on dating website and guess who was back on it he had taken it off while we were talking. Anyway I sent him a text and told him I couldn't go through being hurt again he reply was ???? Lonely weekend. Anyway didn't know needed your permission. So I then told him exactly what has happened to me with previous relationship and wasn't going to get hurt again. Anyway had text from him at midnight last nite saying still friends. Just chill. Nite x I'm so confused is he interested or is he confused because I'm getting such mixed signal. I mean he could have just not text me and called it a day but he text me. Help
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): Sweetheart, he's just not that into you :( If he was interested in you, he would definitely be making contact on a regular basis and would be trying to hook up with you for dinner or something. Find a man that is truly interested, this guy just wants to keep you hanging on in case he needs a shoulder to cry on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): Thanks yet again. Well I don't know what to think I told him I was not going to wait around and be hurt again I explain what had happened with my previous and told him I'm not getting hurt again. The thing is I really like him. But what I can't understand is why after everything that was said did he then text me nearlly 5 hours later to tell me just chill out. I know his profile still on website but when I questioned him about it he said he just hasn't had time to hide it. I know he is very busy at work. But I'm not sure what to think.
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reader, ohbabycakesxx  +, writes (15 February 2010):
To me, it sounds like he's found someone else, or he's lost interest. Guys tend to do those things as subtle or very huge hints that they just don't want the relationship to go on. Trust me, this is from experience. It's good he's still talking to you, it's a sign he wants to be friends, but nothing more. Sorry "/
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 February 2010):
Good job you took it slow and kept texting him, because though it didn't work out, you now know where you really stand. He was back on the dating website, he then went on about permission and said to you 'just chill'. He's not good enough, and is bound to hurt you. Again, when you meet or start talking to a guy in the future, always text lightly and continue to get to know people, because the truth comes out, as it has done here. Sorry it didn't work out.
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