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I'm self-conscious about the appearance of my vulva

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Question - (19 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2011)
A female Canada age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So, i'm self-conscious about my vagina. It is not my labia it is the skin around my clit. It is saggy and sorta pokes out a tad bit. I did some research, but everything i find is about the labia and that is not what it is. I'm really worried that a guy will be turned off if he ever looks down there and won't want to do anything.

But, what i want to know is it normal to have saggy skin around the clit? If so will my partner mind?

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A female reader, bookworm Canada +, writes (19 March 2011):

bookworm agony auntFirst of all, that is totally normal. The point is to protect the clit, so it should stick out a little bit, right? Also, if the appearence turns a guy off, do you really want him down there? To begin with, the reason for him doing anything there is to make you happy, and feel good; so no matter what you look like it shouldnt matter. Besides, it is covered to everyone else, but that person you feel comfortable, and confident enough to share your body with. If you are scared that he won't like how it looks, and that he wont want you because of it, you definetly dont want him. Hope I helped, and good luck with finding the right guy who will love you completely and unconditionally.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (19 March 2011):

Jmtmj agony auntYou're perfectly normal and no, your partner won't mind one bit... trust me on that.

There's an odd trend at the moment (apparently) in which some women are getting surgery on their vagina simply to make it more aesthetically streamlined. I find that ridiculous and totally brought on by women magazines. See they're not allowed to show "the groove" so they airbrush that area just as they airbrush everything else on their models.

To reiterate... you're normal, you're how a woman who isn't airbrushed to hell should look. So chillax :)

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