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writes:I'm friends with a guy at college and I really like him. He knows, but not from me. He doesn't act on this though and he seems to like someone else. I'm so conflicted on what to do. Should I seek advice from his friend? I'm scared to ruin our friendship but I feel he should know from me. Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (30 May 2013):
 Sit down and talk to him, maturely. Tell him you like him, either he will return your feelings and you guys can go from there or he will tell you he doesn't feel that way about you and you'll be crushed. But at least you'll know and you won't be left pining for him and you can find the guy that is going to like you as much as you like him.
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reader, wavesearcher  +, writes (19 May 2013):
Hi I had the same problem and I am in uni.
It's easy for me to say this, because I am not in your shoes, but I have been through this too. My friend gave me the advise to move on at the time and I thought she was being over dramatic. It was the best advise I actually ever followed.
The guy whom I liked at the time also knew I liked him. IF boys like you they will go for it. Simple. And since this guy knows you like him he has the upper hand. It's not worth your time. Stay friends yes! But hang out a bit less if you can and lose interest. Or at least pretend to lose interest. Don't play games or mind games to make him jealous because that is childish. If there is a guy out there who goes for you then go for it. Someone who takes time out of their uni life and actually makes an effort for a girl is a keeper. The guy you like is a boy. You need to go for a man. Good luck!
Funny enough I ended up going for a guy 9 years older. I have to say they don't grow up quick haha. But he treats me like a woman and calls me all the time and never played games with me about who texted first or I like you I Wont act on it. It's refreshing
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