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I'm scared to go out with him in case he just wants to have sex with me.

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Question - (22 February 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

well ive never been in a proper relationship and theres this guy and he keps tellin me how he feels about me but i dont feel as much the same as hes 2 years older and has had sex and i havent and im scared to go out with him and he just uses me fo sex what do i do??please give me advise

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (23 February 2007):

kenny agony auntDon't ever feel like you are being backed into a corner. You are you own person, and you do only what you are comfortable doing.

If this guy is pressuring you and you don't feel happy, then simply walk away.

Good luck x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007):

IF you don't want to do it then you don't have to!! DO NOT FEEL YOU HAVE TO HAVE TO HAVE SEX. Never be pressurised into this.

TAKE CARE XX

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2007):

AskEve agony auntThe best thing you can do is just tell him you're flattered but you don't feel the same way, you're just not interested in him and walk away. Stay well out of his way so he can't get the impression you like him. I'm sure he'll get the hint. If he carries on annoying you in this way tell a friend to let him know you're not interested or better still, tell your parents.

Eve

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