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*akili_luv
writes:Why do I get so jealous over the stupidest things, although i know they prob wont amount to anything i still get nervous that my guy will leave me just like that because of some perfect bimbo. is this normal or am I just a freak?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 There's a lot of competition out there and temptations, no one can guarantee that someone will stay with them and no matter how you try they will only stay if they want to . It's all about the strength of feelings between you. Love is like a gamble. Even people that have been together and put the effort in for years can still be left on their own. But what I can tell you that is if you put your own inhibitions on people that can drive them away. Try not to show your jealousy because some boys will play on that and make you jealous on purpose. Try to get in to the mind set that you are important and he is with you because you are a wonderful person. He is lucky to have you. You are lucky to have both met, so enjoy your time together. Too many young people get together, have babies, never got to know each other first properly or even get to know if they were there for the duration. The children suffer because of bad judgements. Take time to get to know each other and enjoy that time. You will then find the confidence to not be jealous over the stupidest things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): if you are happy with him and he is happy with you, don't waste time and energy worrying about what will happen. Even if that will happen, worrying about it now isn't going to stop it, and it may even hasten it.
Appreciate who you have right now and stop worrying about it changing or what happened or will happen. Enjoy your life and remember that no matter what, you are a strong individual and you CHOSE to be with him. If he leaves you just like that for ANY reason, he's not worth it anyway. Best of luck
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reader, not fat  +, writes (28 November 2010):
i would say we all have feelings like that some times, the diff is if you act on them.
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