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18-21,
anonymous
writes:My 'best friend' tries to make me jealous by bragging about the parties she goes to, in fact gatherings. I know she lies because she told me to pretend we go clubbing, and to alot of parties. She acts like she is sexually active, but she has never had a boyfriend even though many boys are attracted to her. She makes pages for people she is jealous of basically bullying them and adding people in the community, she has hacked into two of her friends myspaces' putting rude comments all over such as 'slag' and deleting ever comment/message. I sometimes go to the parties. I spend most of my free time with my boyfriend. 1/3 is spent with friends, and both my friend and boyfriend. They both complain about this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you people!,im scared to disagree with her incase of her doing something similar to me, and her parents let her do whatever she wants and they pick her up 24/7 if she needs. she invites people to sleep every week. she used to get bullied alot about her appeaqrance, but now people find her very attractive xxxx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 February 2008):
 You cannot change people. They become what they are. It is time to move on and meet new friends. Some friends have outgrown their usefulness.
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reader, jabey + ♥, writes (20 February 2008):
the only way to look at this, is to feel very sorry for this girl. she quite obviously has extremely low self esteem, and it sounds like she really does not like herself. so to make herself feel better she lies and bumps up her life. Then the people she feels jealous of she hurts and puts down.
As her friend, you do one of two things distance yourself from her.
or ignore her behaviour as much as possible, when she tells you about hacking into peoples myspaces, discourage her by expressing truthfully how you disagree with that.
if you feel you have the time and patience with her, praise her a smuch as you can. Encourage her to see the positive things about herself, help her feel better about herself and who she is this way she wont feel the need to attention seek with tall stories.
Im assuming she may not have been encouraged by her parents, or made to feel not good enough. So if you do care about her try to include her and encourage her to feel good about herself.
If her behaviour continues, and you continue to feel upset by her, then for your own sake give her a wide birth.
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