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writes:I have been really worried about my best friend lately, her granny died about 6 months ago and she didnt cope with it very well, since then she started hanging out with some really bad girls and started drinking smoking and taking drugs i have also realised she hasnt been eating. i asked her about this and she told me nothing is wrong but she looks really ill and not the person i know. i have known her most of my life and can't believe how much she has changed. and last night she told me she was pregnant, i am very shocked as she is only 15 and i have tried to be supportive but she doesn't seem the least bit bothered. somebody help please ??
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reader, Keira9312  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 your best friend sounds like the type who has never handled problems with ease. She may just be in a state of recovery or shock, depending on how close she was with her granny. Your friend may just feel that hanging with "bad girls" and doing drugs or drinking will help her to feel better, considering alcohol is a depressant. Some of that nonsense behavior may have also come from unheard issues at home or at school. She may have had a major plummet in grades that led to a terrible fight over responsibility, and felt that she would make her parents pay. It may also be that those are her choices. It usually depends on what kind of life she has led. If her relatives and friends drink, she may want to. The only thing i can conclude with is that your friend is just in a state of recovery. Though she may have secrets, you should respect that, but you can still be worried for her. It shows her that you care.
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