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writes:So, my 3 year crush rejected me recently and now i'm trying to do something with this new girl in my english class.Long story short: new english class, new mates, 15 girls and me. There is this one who is so pretty and and a little bit shy. It felt like god is giving me a signal because she is the only one that walks home the same way as me.I'm trying to not seem needy or desperate by SOMETIMES walk along her and sometimes going in another direction. When we do we often talk about what we do, what careers we are following and typical 17old topics.This what exactly happened: we both go out of classes, she walks normally, turns back and sees me (indirectly) and her friends, she goes with her friends till they separate routes (this is when i would start walking with her) but this time she stays chatting with her friends in a corner of the block.I'm planning on asking her next time.Any recomendations?What should i correct?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2015): well firstly you need to lighten up and stop worrying. You're not asking her to marry you, to sleep with you, to redifine your whole life etc , your just gonna ask her would you like to go to....pizza place with me or something equally simple. If youve got no money to go buying pizza and you think she might be a messy eater , you could ask her if she'd like to listen to music with you,or to play video games round at your house,but you must remember that the invitation is just that..it is not a secret request to undo her bra strap, or kiss passionately,or share bank accounts or make babies. It's just a rather innocent offer of friendship to see if she wants to be your particular friend or girlfriend or if she's got a boyfriend already in which case she' ll turn you down politely. If all else fails just remember she may be busy with her own crush on someone inaccssible and your invitation may fall on deaf ears. If it does dont take it personally , because in the three years you were crushing on someone, there may have been girls secretly wishing you would ask them out, but you may have been unaware of this.
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