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I'm paranoid that once he saw me naked he was turned off.

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Question - (10 November 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *shashash123 writes:

I met a guy and last night he stayed over for the first time. We had a couple of glasses of wine and we began to get frisky. However, when we got down to business he had a semi erection and couldnt get a full erection all night. Does this mean he doesnt fancy me? I'm paranoid that once he saw me naked he was turned off.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2011):

if he has a semi erection and you think you should do something maybe talk dirty? or dominate him? of course it might have been his first time and he was scarred. or it could have been the alcohol but i dont know because i dont drink

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A male reader, unknown2u United States +, writes (11 November 2011):

My experience with this is having things move too fast. Girls can freight so much on intimacy -- that it means commitment, undying love, etc. -- and if he's thinking that's where you are, when he knows he's not, then his brain doesn't let it happen. Rather than a message that you're not beautiful, it's more likely a message to take things slower. The good news is that it means he has a conscience.

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A female reader, dr.2.be United States +, writes (11 November 2011):

dr.2.be agony auntNo need to worry. Chances are, it was the alcohol that made it hard for him to get turned on. Consumption of alcohol can affect ones sexual performance to a large degree. So don't let it bother you. Next time you two get together, skip the wine and see what happens. Just remember to take things slow and be safe.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (11 November 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntprobably a combination of nerves and alcohol....

and probably not personal.... in other words it wasn't because you took your clothes off and i"m sure he was embarrassed by this....

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A female reader, Fate100percent United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2011):

Maybe the wine was his problem? Or nerves?

I have had this problem with a man on the first night too, (though the next time was much better!!!! ;-) (and he did indeed fancy me!) lol

First times with people are sometimes awkward, give it time, (and if he was wanting/willing to get naked with you, I doubt your nakeness was a turn off!!!!!) :-)

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