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I'm only on the bus with him for 5 mins, so how can I get to know him?

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Question - (20 December 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2006)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone, I would be really grateful if anyone can give me some advice.

I get the bus to work everyday and on the bus Ive noticed the most gorgeous boy Ive ever seen who I think gets off quite a few stops after me to go to work. Im only on the bus for literally 5 minutes but everytime I get on I notice he stares at me and when I look he quickly looks away. Sometimes he's with a friend and one time I got on the bus and I noticed his friend nudge him and nod his head my way as if to say look who's getting on. I know I may sound really silly, but does this mean that he could fancy me?

Every time I get off the bus I look at him and I go to smile but he always looks away. I think he may also have a gf as I have heard him talking about a girl to his friend. But why does he stare at me? And if he does like me, how can I start talking to him? I never see him anywhere but on the bus and I dont want to seem like a stalker if I just go up and say hi. I would smile at him but he never looks at me when I look at him! How can I get to know him a bit more. I cant believe that I like someone loads but I dont even know their name!

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A female reader, hemé'oono  +, writes (28 December 2006):

hemé'oono  agony auntI would just walk over and hand him a piece of paper with my first name, the word coffee?? and my phone number on it. That way if he's available or interested he can call me. If he's not then he won't. But either way, he knows you are!!

That's what I would do but I'm forward that way.

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A female reader, emz4rocks4u +, writes (21 December 2006):

emz4rocks4u agony auntI agree with the other chick who replyed to this Question...also dont be to shy...I used to be shy all the time and I had no friends...maybe if you make it a point to just say hello you will be proving somthing to yourself...and if your like me then you will shake off the feeling of not knowing what might of happend

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A female reader, LttleBadMonkey12 +, writes (20 December 2006):

LttleBadMonkey12 agony auntIf your not sure if this guy has a girlfriend its really hard to think about what you should do.Heres what you should do:the next time you get on the bus walk straight over to where hes sitting(if hes alone).Make eye contact with him a couple of times and don't forget to smile. Sit down next to him and introduce yourself "Hello I'm so and so." He'll reply and thats it. Remain quiet the rest of the time. If he's really interested in you(I'm sure he is) he'll try to start a conversation.If you guys do start talking make sure to somehow find out if he has a girlfriend.I wouldn't want him to be two timing you.

Good Luck!!

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