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writes:This is a bit of a strange question but one I am curious about. You know how some men find two women together a turn on, well I find two guys together a turn on. I've got this problems which just seems to get bigger and bigger, I feel as if I am attracted to gay men. Im bisexual, and even when I end up with a girl, it's always a girl who looks boyish. This is also affecting my relationship with my gay male friend - when he tells me about his sex life (we're very open with eachother), I find myself getting really turned on by the thought of him with antoher man. It's getting to the point, that I'm feeling less and less attracted to heterosexual sex, and am only interested in gay sex, but between two men. What is wrong with me? This sounds so daft, but I feel like a gay man inside a womens body, but I dont have any gender issues or anything like that. I like to dress feminine and go out with my friends ofr a girls night out but this attraction to gay men is ruining my relationship prospects. Please help =(
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): i think its alright to have homosexual fantasies, AS LONG AS you're grounded with your beliefs and know what your sexuality it. its all the choice that matters. i'm a straight (recently bi curious) 19 year old guy and i used to have loads of lesbian fantasies filled up in my head since I was 13! Now, i've opened myself to the gay male fantasies, and they're awesome too! I enjoy these thoughts and fantasies, but I'm grounded with my sexuality as straight. So, my advice is don't worry, its COMPLETELY NORMAL to fantasise about these things. Enjoy your fantasies! The sky's the limit!! :) take care.
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reader, aim  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 Hmm. I guess this kind of fantasy turns you on and some people because it is somewhat.... taboo and not essentialy natural for most. In deed, i also have had lesbian sex and gay sex fantasies and it turns me on a different level than the "casual-boy-girl" sex. Don't worry, you're not weird, you're not an alien. :)
Enjoy the fantasies! haha.
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reader, gayuncleandy  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 Enjoy it for what it is. And what is it? It is a thought. It is part of you. There is nothing wrong and nothing right about it. Some fantasies are harmful, but this is part of growing into YOU! It won't last forever, but enjoy it while it does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): I believe this is more of a fantasy, than reality. You're a girl, so obviously can't have gay sex in the way of two men together, but enjoying the thought of gay sex. There isn't really anything wrong with this, many people have weird and wonderful fantasies! There's nothing wrong with you honey. It's a harmless fantasy. Have you considered watching gay porn, to try and fulfil this sexual desire?
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