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writes:Umm yeah bit of problem...been with gf for few weeks now..broke with her before ( we had sexual intercorse back then). We split up and found new partners and slept with them. My gf recently split with her bf, she tells me the condom split when they was having sex, and she hasnt come on her peroid since then...We had sex a few days ago she told me to 'cum' in her 'what does it matter'...I feel stupid and I dunno why but got a adrenaline feeling and just went for it...I cummed in her and It just dribbled out...Can she still get pregnant?And if she does get pregnant should I take her to find out who's it is.Ive told her I will stand by her if she does get pregnant even if it aint mine. Im only 17 and do not really feel like i want to be a daddy!Many thanks xx
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reader, xmeganx +, writes (11 December 2007):
 whether you 'feel like' it or not, you gave up that choice when you dived straight in without a condom. She sounds stupid. Im pregnant, im 15. I dont 'feel like' being a mummy just yet, but time to grow up cos its happening.
The only thing you can do now is keep your fingers crossed that she isnt. If she isnt then she needs to cross her legs n keep them like that!
If she is, then yeah you should take her for a DNA test.
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (6 December 2007):
 I am with Heartly and Missmel34. Both of them have given you very good advice.
You have managed to get into a lot of trouble. I think your problems are only beginning.
What I see here is two teenagers who don't really love each other. Maybe you can get along well, and you like each other enough to have sex; but you don't have what I would call a proper relationship. And you don't take sex as seriously as you should.
I want to pick up where Missmel34 left. If someone, that is, a child comes out of all this, and the child is yours, you will have to become responsible for this baby, whatever your age, whether you're ready to become a father or not. You can't just say you're not ready. No man ever is, until one day when the baby is there, and you need to learn, whatever it takes. Stand up to the potential consequence of your not using a condom.
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reader, missmel34  +, writes (6 December 2007):
 Hmmmm.
She probably was not pregnant from the first incident with the broken condom. Becoming pregnant is not a definite thing, you have to have unprotected sex during a certain stage in a womans cycle. Having said that, you having unprotected sex with her may mean that you have impregnated her just the same. So basically, if she wasn't pregnant the first time, she very well could be now....to your child.
But besides that, you know that shes had unprotected sex with another person, so you in turn had unprotected sex with her. How do you know if this guy did not have a sexually transmited disease, you don't. For all you know you have just made yourself open to a whole range of illnesses and diseases.
She will need to see her local doctor as soon as possible to confirm what the repercusions are from all this. She should be on the pill as well as using condoms to protect from std's.
Being sexually active is one thing, but being sexually active and irresponsible is another thing all together. Just because yur bodies are old enough to have sex, doesn't mean your mature enough to do it. If you insist on having sex, educate yourself to the dangers.
To answer your question about who's child it would be. You will have to wait for the child to be born to test for the paternity of the child. So if she is pregnant, you will have a long nervous wait ahead of you. Please take this scare as a lesson, and don't put yourself in a similar position again. The fact you don't understand the basics of safe sex only shows just how immature you are, and therefore not in a position to father a child.
I hope for all your sakes nothing will come of this stupidity. But please take my advice and go and see a doctor.
Good Luck.
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reader, Heartly  +, writes (6 December 2007):
 yes she can get pregnant and yes you should make sure its yours ! i dont know you or this girl but she could have asked you to cum in her for several resons . if she thinks or knows she is already pregnant by this other guy and wants you to think its yours and take responsablity for it and may be she just tricked you into getting her preg . ?
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