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13-15,
LoveObsession
writes:Hiya!Now i know i wrote about this not that long ago but now, its only gotten worse!Im now fully 600% in love with my female teacher,She ignores me,Tries her ultimate hardest not to talk to me,And if she has to - its quick and painful.One minute shes all over me and cant stop talking to me.The next thing i know shes standing ages away from me, her eyes darting back-and-forth to me and this other guy in the class.She flirts like mad with him.Im not the only person that has noticed; its messing up my head!!! If i am talking to her she puts on an almost fake smile and stares far into the distance, nodding occassionallyy.Im not stupid - i KNOW i should take the hint but i am sooo deep and sooooo confused about it that i just cannot function.I cry every night because i cant be with her.I cried even harder when i found out she was allegedlly going out with another male teacher.I am completely lost in translation,I have a very good friend that i met through this site, who is tragically going through the same thing. [So, i suppose this is for the both of our obsessions!]And both teachers give out the cruel mixed messages.I gave her a christmas card before the holidays and she smiled at me and started nervously playing with the envolope; but the way she was creasing the edges, seemed almost flirtacious!I just stood next to my mate who sort of just....stared, it was obvious there was chemistry and it frightens me that she isnt showing how she feels. Id rather she told me that she never wanted to see me again, than this sensational gripping feeling that occurs when our eyes meet - its so beautiful and such a special moment, but horrible and heartbreaking all the same.Im so deep and confused.I love my friend [from dearcupid.org] tonnesand i think we both need more advice.PLEASE HELP;I dont think either of us could take it anymore...im really losing my head and need advice from other people to sort this mess out.I CANT block it out,and i CANT ignore these feelings.Thanksxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008): I'm sort of in the same situation as you. I'm also really in love with by teacher. Every time she looks at me and smiles makes me feel on top of the world. I also gave my teacher a Christmas card and gift. I gave her a necklace and a picture of ME and my brothers. She said the card was beautiful. I think she likes me too. If I were you I would go up to her and tell her how you feel.
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reader, Love Never Runs Smoothly  +, writes (15 January 2008):
I know exactly what you are going through because i am in the same situation. I love my teacher and she sends out the same signals. I also cry at night because i love her and i cant be with her. Please comment back i think we can help eachother xoxo
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reader, bazookabob +, writes (30 December 2007):
 Errr just to answer amy below... i'm a trainee teacher and i don't play mind games or flirt with any of the pupils i teach!!! I'm not saying that none do, but its certainly a bit harsh to say that we all do. I know you think you're in love with your teacher, and im not saying that you aren't, but at your ages, it can often seem to be love when in fact it isn't. If you (or amy!) want to chat in a bit more detail about your teacher problems with a teacher to get a different point of view, please fel free to give me a message back. If not, good luck with your situations!
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reader, Amy2007x +, writes (30 December 2007):
 No offence to any teachers on this site but, i believe you when you say your teacher and your friends teacher is giving out mixed signals, teachers DO flirt one minute then the next there bk to bein strict and mean and they act as if you dont exist, everyone on this site thinks tht the sunshine comes outta teachers butts! but the real fact is that it aint and tht there are some very cruel teachers who know tht girls like them and still continue to flirt with them and get their chances up - basically there older adults im sure they can spot a crush and we all know tht they know how to encourage it too - so i would try and forget about this teacher as she seems to be playin wabout with your head a bit too much show her tht u aint gonan fall for her trap and jsut have smile and act like she dont mean a thing to you when u are in her class...
i hope i helped
if u ever need to talk im here (ps i am also in love with my teacher and im confused about him, but i know about these mind game things as all teachers do it!)
xx
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reader, truly_unique  +, writes (28 December 2007):
ok just chill sweet heart!!!
wow what a difficult situation. and your teacher is being very unproffesional about it.
talking to a counsellor may help you to get out some of that frustration as well as advise you on how to go about this situation. one thing is for sure. things have got to change!
it may seem like a very difficult thing to do but seeing less of this teacher is a very good option. im sure you undertand how illegal this is..ok you do? good
trying to cut ties is a very good idea.
imagine if this teacher wasnt your teacher..and you were just asking advice to all her mixed messages?? most people would tell you to move on as she is not worth it. as she seems to be playing games with your head and that is in no way fair..add the teacher part to that equation and she should be doing her utmost to stay personally uninvolved.
best of luck
x
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reader, xSpacexDementiax + ♥, writes (26 December 2007):
 hey, do you want to message me and we can chat?
xx
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