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female
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26-29,
*miffy123
writes:Okay there is this teacher that I am like really obsessed with and I harass her lot on email sending her stuff saying I love her I'm not a lesbian or anything it's just every time I see her at school I just think she's everything. I know it's wrong cos she's like 36 and I'm 15.
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reader, HarveyWallbanger  +, writes (29 August 2011):
Definitely leave her alone. Like many here have said, you could get her in serious, serious trouble - as in lose her job and maybe go to jail. If you really think she's cool, please consider that.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (29 August 2011):
 This is a surprisingly common problem for teen girls actually, especially if you have a parent who's an alcoholic. You need to go see a therapist to work out the underlying issue to figure out why you feel this kind of need. Even once you are no longer obsessed with this teacher, there will be another you feel this kind of attachment to. Has this happened with other teachers before? Not the behavior necessarily, but the feeling. It's not the teacher who you are obsessed with, but the need for this void to be filled.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (29 August 2011):
 Either she is unbelievably patient and tolerant or you aren't really sending her lots of emails. This behavior wouldn't be tolerated by anyone for very long let alone a student harassing their teacher. I think you are handing us a bunch of hooey.
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reader, Battista +, writes (29 August 2011):
What's your question? You clearly know what you have been doing is wrong. Please leave this woman alone as you could cause serious trouble for her.
When you say you love her, are you talking about in a daughter-parent type way? Do you have problems at home? We need more information to be able to answer properly.
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