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writes:Do you believe in tarot/card reading? Do anyone here has experience in that?Yesterday i went to a famous tarot card reader with my friend. She is 86 years old and been reading for 55 years. She asked me about our name, address, and birth date. Then she asked me to pick 1 card and she started reading 13 things about me. I dont tell her anything or any problem im in but she can see what happen in my life which is strange. In between the reading she did asked me some questions. 95 percent of what she said is what i had know and happening. She said my mother in law dislike me due to she thinks im not responsible wife and cant take care of family because i prefer to went home helping my parent during the day. I went back only at night. I did this because my husband isnt home during that time and his parent is so demanding and his mom loves to spoke ill and sarcastic to hurt my feeling. The card said that his mom love to badmouth and spoke ill about me to my husband. Worse is my husband kinda side with them if anything happen. So she advice me to dont tell him anything abiut his mom cause he only side with his family. The card said his mom is jealous of our relationship that my husband use to love and care about me and show it. But then nowadays my husband is cold to me and being tempramental. So she see one day his mom can ask me to just live in my parent house as im going home everyday. The aunty reader said hid mom hates out relationship and try to make us separate by making its all my fault.So back home i had an arguement with him about other thing and he asked me to go home and just stay at my parent house as its his mom said. He say his mom is very kind and caring that she think about me to let me go home or just stay because im cared more at my own house beacuse husband family is busy. How can my husband choose his mom over me. He thinks his mom is very kind but in reality his mom hated me and often ignore me. I feel he doesnt love me and betrayed. Yesterday the aunty read that i will move out soon or later and my husband will follow me later because he loves me and this baby im pregnant with. How come he follow me if he thinks its my fault overthinking and his mom is kind?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2018): Hi OP, As much as i do agree with some things others have said, especially about cold reading tarot readers, i also have my own opinion on this and your situation.
I myself, am a tarot reader.about 11 years now.
And i must agree not all tarot readers get it right 100% and should always be advertised "for the purpous of entertainment."
Now , This tarot reader obviously pulled up on the fact you and your MIL have some issues. Now, in my opinon, she told you way too much and instigated a following argument between you and your husband!Big no no!
If that was me i would , yes, inform you of the ongoing difficulties but i would of also advised you best (with the cards) on how to deal with it in the best way, along with remaining neutral and not biased to you or your MIL.
I dont really care what anyone elses opinion is, itl never stunt my beliefs, i think theres worse beliefs out there to be honest, but i rely wholly on spirit guides/spiritual influence and utmost belief that is what is backing my cards, so of course, we can pull out some really specific details (without having to look up/stalk/or spy on the client prior i might add, and without cold reading) but we, as professionals, must decide on what information will benefit you , and what wont, using intuition and common sence!
The fact she told you to hide anything from your husband was not good advice, and that she told you way too much in a biased view wasnt good either.
The amount of years experience a tarot reader has means nothing!
It is the reviews, recommendations & personality of the reader that means the most when choosing!
This lady could have 55 years behind her, but could also, as stated before, be a pro in conning people, or using her gifts to take advantage of clients to keep them coming back!
Iv had clients come to me saying another reader senced a demon around her! a demon! and that she could rid her of it for like $250! seriously! you need to be so careful and take whats said with a pinch of salt!
Not every reader you go to will be honest with you, and if you appear vulnerable in anyway, they will 100% take advantage of you!
You being kicked out of your husbands will probably have you thinking about seeing the tarot reader again!
Nothing has been resolved so why wouldnt you?
She knows what shes doing, dont buy into it.
All you need to do now, is try make amends with your husband and do what you can to smooth the rift between you and your MIL asap! keep the peace!
Nameste
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reader, N91  +, writes (2 March 2018):
 Absolute rubbish.
They give out general situations that could be happening in anyone's life. They're either right or wrong and if they get lucky with something they get the paying customer to give then all the answers they need to get more 'readings' out of them.
She's been doing this for 55 years as a job, paying the bills with it. She knows exactly what she's doing.
If you're not happy with your homelife then YOU do something about it. Dont let some phony tarot reader influence your decisions.
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reader, mystiquek  + ♥, writes (2 March 2018):
 OP you are on here several times a week complaining about your MIL. You have been given excellent advice every time and yet you don't seem to do anything about it. If you are that miserable then why don't you & your husband move out? Why don't you DO something about the situation instead of just complaining about it? It does no good to complain and complain and do nothing to change things.
As far as going to a tarot card reader...its like throwing money down the toilet or into the trash can. They can ask the right questions to get the answers they need out of you to make general assumptions. I'd never waste my money on one of them.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (1 March 2018):
 I don't believe in fortune tellers & tarot cards, I'm afraid. The lady obviously asked you enough questions to gauge what issues you had in your life. You might not think that you'd given her much information, but if she's been 'reading' people for 55 years I'm sure she is an expert at 'reading' between the lines of what you've said. As for your current situation, it is a very difficult one. If you need to take care of your parents, let your husband know that you would do the same for his parents. Point out that you are all - both sides - family, and you must care for whomever is in need. Let him know if his mother needed you, that you would be there for her too. I would advise against saying anything negative against his mother - let him know that you can see that his mother loves him and only wants the best for him. And then, let him know this is how you feel about him too. And that you have a responsibility to care for your family.
Find as many positive things as you can to say about his mother, and only ever say the positives. If your mother-in-law only ever says negative things, and you are only ever saying positives, your husband will see, hear and feel a shift, and I am certain that it will be towards you.
In the end you must do what you feel is best for you. Don't leave your husband because an 86 year old tarot card reader said that you would.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2018): Even if you do believe in readings of whatever kind, you should also believe that future changes depending on the decisions we make. And when the future changes, so do the readings.
So basically, the answer, whether you do believe or not in the readings, would be that readings are pointless. What they tell you today won't be applicable tomorrow.
Funny thing about readings. No one ever goes to have one when he or she is perfectly content. And very few people know such a state of bliss. So, to begin, you go there when you are unhappy or have a problem. And since no one believes that he or she is responsible or wrong, or a bad person, pretty much all the readings will tell you how wonderful a person you are and how much you have suffered. And a 10 year old might identify with that as well.
So, instead of reading the future, read the present. You don't need to pay anyone to do it for you.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (1 March 2018):
 To each their own with beliefs, but tarot card readers and psychics use body language to guess things about their customers. Some use names and addresses to do checks to find out who you're married to, who may be related to you, who died, what school you went to, etc.
If she's been doing it for that long, she'll have essentially mastered the tricks of the trade. She's not necessarily a "fraud" either, in the sense that people pay for her services *knowing* there's a high chance it's not real.
Whether you believe in God(s) or tarot/psychics, *NEVER* put your faith in them when it comes to making decisions. Your relationship needs communication between you and your husband, not you and this lady.
If you're pregnant, you need to put your foot down and sort your marriage out - NOT go to a psychic or tarot card reader. Go to a LICENSED counsellor, not a faith or psychic one.
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