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writes:I always wanted to be wanted by some women now it may have come true but I don't know what to do I don't know why she what she see in me she works in a different dept. in my hotel she always fusses when I order my lunch and tells me I look better when I shave my mustache I am not sure about anything but I don't want to queer the deal I like her a lot and I want to get to know her better but I ask myself why is she attracted to me I am not a brad pit nor am I a George Clooney Reply to this Question
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reader, Gauntlet  +, writes (11 February 2014):
 First: are you sure the girl is really interested in you ?
Second: if she is, maybe she sees in you something good you don't detect yourself as it's naturally part of you. Your kindness, your modesty, the way you treat others... It may as well be something physical that reminds her a beloved actor or singer... hope you look more like Paul Newman than Stan Laurel to her eyes !
Third: maybe she is looking for somebody who is symmetrically different than her ex-boyfriend or her father ?
Anyway, it's not so important to know why, as it can break the magic (in love, the fewer we know, the better). Just try soon to know if you really have a hit with her, and if it's the case, enjoy the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2014): Not every woman is looking for a Brad Pitt of George Clooney, some women just want a nice guy. Don't compare yourself to other guys or put yourself down!Start talking to her, you don't have to be blunt and say that you like her straight away, just talk and see how things go. If she's prepared to tell you that she thinks you look better when you shave then do it and see if she comments.Take things slow and then ask her on a date, it doesn't have to be fancy or expensive, but just go with it. If she likes you then there's only one true way to find out.
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