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stephytee87
writes:I just met up with my ex, and thought I'd give it one last shot to save us.He basically told me he was happier with out me, didn't want a relationship and wanted to live the 'single' life, but didn't want any relationships with anyone other than friends. I just find this hard to deal with but I guess I have to.We had been together 2 and a half years and a week before we split he got us a flat. He's moving in himself, and said he doesn't know if he'll ever want me back.He'll end up waking up one day and realising that he has no one to love him, I think he'll regret it in the long run.I just need to get over him now. I want to be friends but there is no way I can do that right now. A month or two, maybe.I just need some advice really, I love him so much but I'm not stupid. I know he might never come back to me, so I need to move on. I'd rather do it as quickly as poss!xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Ignore him all of his calls messages etc. Just ignore him flat out. You see him let him say something first don't go right up to him let him come to you. He will see that he made a mistake but you can't help him see this. ONly he can see this for himself! Surrond yourself with friends and people who care about you and make yourself happy and forget him!! He will come back if he wakes up, but he may not because he could be to stupid to realize someting good that has happened to him.
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reader, RossMcGowan +, writes (23 February 2008):
Right moving on. Id say thats the best thing to do, if hes says that he probably means it. What ill do is ill give you tips on how to forget someone which ive picked up myself along the years- if you decide to get over him.1) Delete all the songs that remind you of him.2) If you have MSN or that delete all the contacts connected with him, including his best friends etc.3) Delete him on anything like BEBO or MYSPACE or whatever like any of that stuff.4) Try and get rid of anything he bought you.5) Any films youve watched or anything both have you have shared, get rid of.
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